Okay, so I have a lot of time today, and I’m going to talk about something I’ve wanted to talk about for a long time. If you don’t like the title, well…too bad.
Guys like girls, right? So what’s wrong with having sex?
Nothing. I don’t have anything against having sex. I do have something against having sex outside of marriage though. Why? Because, we are to keep our bodies pure for God. Because in the beginning, when God created the world, there was one man and one woman, not one man and all his women. Because we are supposed to be perfect in the sight of God. Because sex is a gift, not to misused (as is the case with the vast, vast majority of Americans (and people in general) today). These are just a few reasons.
Okay, so I can still look, right? I mean, the rule is “look but don’t touch,” right?
That might be 21st century America’s rule, but not God’s. Jesus said that whoever looks at a woman with lust in his heart has already committed adultery with her in his heart. So, that pretty much blows that “rule” to pieces.
Well, the only reason I do it is because my parents said I can’t.
Oh boy, now we’re getting into it, aren’t we? Let’s put the blame on our parents. If they said we couldn’t do it, we wouldn’t do it, right? Wrong. It doesn’t matter whether your parents said “Yeah, I don’t care, have sex,” or “No, I care about you, I don’t want you to do anything stupid, so you can’t have sex,” or whether or not they’ve ever said anything to you; you’re still gonna want to have sex, trust me, I know. Even beyond that, we’re supposed to honor our parents, not disobey them. So not only are you committing one sin (sex outside of marriage), you are committing another one on top of that (dishonoring your parents by disobeying them). So now, by attempting to put the blame on your parents, you’ve just made yourself double guilty.
I’m just doing it to be counter-cultural.
Making more excuses? Great, let’s tear those apart too. You really want to counter-cultural? Then why are you doing what the culture does? Want to be rebellious? Then why are you blending in? Everyone is doing it (literally). Why do you think that instead of teaching abstinence in those sex-ed classes (yes, I’ve had to sit through them…ugh…), they’re now teaching you how to use a condom and showing you pictures of infected parts?
If everyone is doing it, then I can too, right?
Um…no. If everyone started killing each other, would that make it right? Besides, I thought you wanted to be counter-cultural? If everyone is doing it, and you want to be counter-cultural, then you should start doing the opposite of what everyone else is doing.
You really want to know why everyone is having sex outside of marriage? It’s because you are a slave. You’re a slave to sin. You do whatever your body (and your sinful heart) wants you to do. Want a way out? Want some way to get over this sin, to escape bondage? Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ, the only Son of God, lived a perfect life and died a perfect death to be a sacrifice for your sin. Why? Because that’s the only way to pay for sin. The wages of sin is death. Meaning, if you sin, you deserve to die, no exceptions. So how does Jesus’ death help you? Well, it wouldn’t do much good by itself. But guess what? Christ was raised from the dead! Christ killed death, literally. Christ will save all those who believe in Him. Want to hear more? Just ask, I’ll be happy to share.